Pets get along like cats and dogs
**Helping Your Pets Coexist During Visits: Advice from Dr. John de Jong**
Dear Dr. John,
I have been seeing a gentleman for a few months, and we are challenged by our pets. I have a neutered male cat, and his dog is a neutered male Irish terrier mix.
When we visit and stay at one another’s homes, the animals do not get along. At my condo, my cat can easily hide from the dog, and he does so. The dog is high energy and barks at my cat. I’m not sure if he wants to attack or is just barking.
At his home, I keep the cat in one room with the door closed. What can we do to help our pets coexist?
— B.W.
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Dear B.W.,
Thank you for sharing your concerns. Managing pet interactions across two separate homes can be challenging, but there are several behavior-modifying techniques you can try.
First, consider how long your visits usually last. Since the dog needs to come over for walks, that visit makes sense. However, if your visits are shorter than three days, does your cat need to be transported each time? Sometimes, limiting travel for one pet reduces stress for everyone. Your cat might be happier staying in his own home while you’re away.
When the dog visits your condo, try keeping treats on hand to redirect his attention away from the cat. The goal is to have the dog associate the presence of the cat with positive experiences, helping him lose interest in chasing or barking.
Another useful technique involves scent swapping. Have each animal lie on a small blanket, toy, or an item of clothing until it carries their scent. Then bring that item to the other’s home and allow the other pet to sniff and get comfortable with it.
Ensure both animals have safe spaces in each home where they can retreat if they feel stressed.
During introductions, use separation or barriers: keep the dog on a leash and the cat in a carrier. Try introducing them gradually and only when the dog is calm, perhaps after a long walk.
Lastly, it may help to consult a local veterinary behaviorist. They can offer additional techniques and may recommend pheromone diffusers, over-the-counter calming supplements, or specific medications if needed.
With patience and time, I’m hopeful your pets will learn to coexist peacefully.
Best of luck,
Dr. John de Jong
President, World Veterinary Association
Owner, Boston Mobile Veterinary Clinic
Contact: 781-899-9994
https://www.bostonherald.com/2025/11/02/pets-get-along-like-cats-and-dogs/
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